Holiday Rituals – The New York Times

I’m in love with the Thanksgiving season of my imagination, the one with families and friends gathered cozily around a table overflowing with the season’s bounty, children with mittens fastened to their cuffs jumping into piles of leaves. The holiday shopping hustle, cheesy movies in which people fall in love over steaming mugs of cocoa. It’s a prototype, a manufactured template for traditions that doesn’t mirror anyone’s reality exactly, but on which, I think, we all riff in one way or another, creating our own versions of a meaningful season.

What makes the holidays special are the rituals particular only to us, those household- or individual-specific things we do every year that will never be memorialized in a Norman Rockwell painting. They’re personal, idiosyncratic, maybe even a bit boring.

Perhaps for you it’s screaming at the TV while watching football on the Saturday after Thanksgiving. Maybe it’s taking a long walk with your whole family in the 4:30 p.m. twilight or spending an afternoon volunteering. One friend told me that her most steadfast seasonal tradition is cleaning her garden, getting rid of all the dead leaves before the first snow arrives.

In 2016, Frank Bruni wrote in The Times about a family whose holiday yardwork results in a vase full of branches to which they affix leaf-shaped pieces of paper with messages of gratitude, creating a Thankful Tree. Frank recognized his own family in this very specific tradition: “While the rituals vary, the attachment to them doesn’t,” he wrote.

Holiday rituals change, depending on circumstance. At the height of the pandemic, we shrank our gatherings, left hand sanitizer for Santa, conducted “What I’m Thankful for This Year” recitations via Zoom. Some of these changes stick, some revert.

What’s your weekend-after-Thanksgiving ritual? Does it involve trying at every meal to perfect the proportions of your ideal leftover sandwich? Do you, as I do, try to read as much as possible in your effort to average a book a week by the end of the year? Is there something you do each year that you think everyone else should adopt?

Tell me about your personal holiday rituals, the more specific the better. Include your full name, city and state and I’ll share some in an upcoming edition of The Morning.

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Good morning, do you hear that little tap-tap-tap from your kitchen cupboard? It’s your soup pot calling, asking you to turn your Thanksgiving leftovers into a velvety, lemon-spiked turkey barley soup. The recipe, from Cristiana N. de Carvalho, is straightforward in the best possible way — a gentle mix of barley, herbs and soup vegetables. Even if you can’t bear to think about another turkey meal at the moment, you should still make this soup. It freezes perfectly, and will be exactly what you want when the deep winter winds howl. Always listen to your soup pot.

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